11/10/2026
Hello lovely 😘
Ooohhff, this new moon has brought up a lot of reflections for me as I look back on my decade in Spain. 10 years!! 🇪🇸
I’ve been zoning in on the relationships I’ve allowed myself to have over the years, and the times I let myself be pushed down or become smaller.
I realise that I didn’t want to judge people so much, that I struggled to recognise when something wasn’t right for me, or to speak up when I was hurt by people’s behaviours or actions.
I can see that pattern so clear in romantic relationships, work and parents, and even has even appeared in a yoga group before where I felt that what was happening between other people became my responsibility.
Fairness has always mattered deeply to me. I find it hard to watch people being treated unfairly and I don’t hesitate to fight or speak for them, but it’s been much harder to stand up for myself.
I’m slowly understanding that how someone treated me doesn’t change my value.
I can acknowledge that something wasn’t okay for me without deciding that the other person is all bad. I am not the person for resentment and bitterness.
I think this Libra new moon is helping me understand nuance more deeply: I can hold more than one truth at a time and still stand up for myself.. it feels exiting what these thoughts will open me up to.
What’s coming up for you this weekend? 🌚
With Love,
Jannina