08/03/2026
Too many mothers are being swayed by ill-informed advice. It’s causing them to be up late at night, sleepless, googling how they should mother.
Many of us haven’t been guided by wise elder women, so we outsource to our pediatrician, the dentist, our best friend, or some family member.
If you just pause and zoom out, some good question to ask yourself are:
“Do I respect how this person mothers/parents?”
“Are they speaking from their degree or integrated experience?”
“Have they learned something valuable from mistakes they’ve made?”
“Are they intuition and instinct led or are they prescribing parenting techniques?”
If they’re giving you one size fits all advice then you can probably disregard because no one knows you and your baby better than you.
When you become unshakeable - unf**kwithable, mothering starts to feel less stressful and anxiety ridden and more easeful and peaceful.