08/26/2026
I made a post earlier this week regarding the passing of Vince O'Neill. I left it vague, because at that point, I didn't have a clue how to express my thoughts and emotions. Honestly, I still don't.
My Facebook feed is full of words about Vince. "Mentor," "biggest influence," "toughest man I've ever known" are phrases seen repeatedly, and all written by men I admire greatly. Vince was the guy admired by the guys I admire. A force of nature. Vince was the storehouse of all the information the rest of us want and need. And, more importantly, he had the ability to express and communicate that in a way that us mere mortals could absorb and understand. We are all truly less without him.
I will share a single personal memory of Vince. Many of us had gathered for dinner. Imagine all the tables in the back half of a restaurant pushed together, and filled with gunmen from all over the country. John Farnam was holding court. Vince was sitting across from me, and he had moved to the new CLEET campus in Ada. Trying to make conversation, I asked, "So, Vince, what do you think of the new CLEET campus?" He looked directly at me, a little too hard. His eyes narrowed. And he said, in a quiet voice, "The administration building is beautiful." I was absolutely stunned. In one sentence he told me that training facility failed to meet his expectations. AND if I were to quote him, he said something positive about it. WOW! Very few of the action heroes around that table have that level of communication skill combined with social grace. He could say exactly what he meant in a way that could never be used against him. Bravo, Vince. I miss you already. See you on the other side, Brother.
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