Bender Lactation Consulting

09/03/2026

P**p buttons! Crap/nap or move! I love this guys attitude!! But seriously body work is hot for a reason-because it works!!!

08/26/2026

Core memory made for this family…. In awe over here at the beauty of a human life!!

08/19/2026

As the insurance environment continues to change for the worse for breastfeeding mothers, the facts stay the same.

United has now joined Blue Cross Blue Shield in no longer covering breastfeeding support from IBCLCs through The Lactation Network.

But here’s what I know after 13+ years as an IBCLC and more than 20 years supporting mothers:

Breastfeeding support is worth the investment. It’s worth prioritizing.

Breastfeeding is optimal feeding during one of the most sensitive and important seasons of your baby’s life. And when breastfeeding is difficult, the right support at the right time can make an enormous difference.

A private-pay 90-minute lactation consultation with me is $225.

That’s comparable to the cost of:
• 5 cans of formula
• A baby swing
• Several packages of diapers
• A hair or nail appointment

Those things have value, too. But lactation support is an investment in something you and your baby are doing every single day.

And the dividends of supporting breastfeeding can extend across a lifetime of health.

I know this work personally, too.

These are pictures of my own breastfed babies—Claire, now 13, who breastfed with many struggles, and Patrick, now 9, who was born with a cleft and was exclusively pumped for.

I earned my IBCLC in 2013, but I began assisting mothers in 2005. So, let’s just say… I’ve been doing this for a while. 😉

If breastfeeding is important to you, don’t wait until you’re completely overwhelmed to ask for help.

📍 Serving Wi******er and surrounding areas
📱 Text me for breastfeeding and infant feeding support: (540) 305-6479

You and your baby are worth the investment.

07/09/2026

Voyage Virginia did a little write-up of my Lactation Private Practice. Humbled to be selected as a local resource in the breastfeeding world.

Today we’d like to introduce you to Emily Bender. Hi Emily, so excited to have you on the platform. So before we get into questions about your work-life, maybe you can bring our readers up to speed on your story and how you got to where you are today?I’ve been a Nurse since 2005, a […]

05/21/2026

Text me for all things feeding babies!

05/12/2026

Feeling overwhelmed with feeding, latch pain, low supply concerns, pumping, or newborn feeding questions? You do not have to figure it out alone.

As an experienced IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant), I provide personalized, judgment-free support to help you meet your feeding goals with confidence.

✨ Support for:
• Painful latch & ni**le pain
• Low milk supply concerns
• Bottle refusal & pumping help
• Tongue tie concerns
• Newborn feeding challenges
• Back-to-work planning
• Weighted feeds & personalized care plans

🤍 In-home and/or virtual visits available
🤍 Calm, individualized support
🤍 Evidence-based care for growing families

You deserve support that is both knowledgeable and compassionate.

📩 Text me today (540)305-6479 to schedule a consultation or ask questions.

04/04/2026

When you invest in breastfeeding you are setting up your newborn for life-long health starting with their immune system. And breastfeeding is good for Mama’s health too! Here to support you to meet your feeding goals, Bender Lactation Consulting is the gold standard IBCLC in Wi******er, VA and beyond!

It's widely known that breastfeeding impacts the health of both mother and child, but the underlying biology that leads to these effects has been understudied. In a review article published in Trends in Immunology, researchers highlight recent studies showing T cells—white blood cells that play a ...

12/07/2025

After a year of renewal, we are ready for Guests! Last weekend we finally put the finishing touches on our home away from home. We decided for now we will forego Airbnb fees and rent to family and friends at affordable rates. Contact Mike for availability at (757) 335-1614. December is almost booked up!

11/24/2025

Travel season is here!

Are you getting ready to fly this holiday season? Here’s a quick and handy overview of TSA guidelines for traveling with breast milk. You can find more information on Traveling with Children via the TSA website. See link below
Families on the Fly
https://www.tsa.gov/travel/travel-tips/families-fly
Traveling with Children
https://www.tsa.gov/travel/tsa-cares/traveling-children

[Image Description]Photo of an airplane in the sky, clouds behind an overlay of text which reads, "Flying with Breastmilk. When traveling within the United States: Breast milk is allowed through TSA security.
There is no limit to how much you can bring.
Breast pumps are considered medical equipment and do not count toward your carry on limit.
While most liquids go through X-ray screening, breast milk may be tested separately upon request.
Ice packs, freezer packs, and gel packs are permitted to keep milk cold. If not fully frozen, they may require additional screening.
Dry ice is allowed but must be approved by your airline.
You DO NOT need to be traveling with your child to carry breast milk.
Safe Travels."
La Leche League USA logo sits in the bottom right corner.

Words and Photo 📸 Credit La Leche League USA