10/16/2026
I’ll feel less stressed when life slows down
I’ll feel confident when I weight 130lbs
I’ll feel happy when I hit 150k/year
We’ve all told ourselves these stories of when we have this thing, we will feel in control and complete
But the fear of discomfort that comes from moving towards those things keeps us stuck
Believing we are deserving of something and not having it or not taking action towards it causes what’s called incongruence.
It’s a mismatch - a gap - between our real selves and our ideal self.
And it causes an immense amount of stress and suffering.
Unfortunately, the only way to close this gap and start becoming who we are and managing this stress is by doing things that push us out of that zone.
The woman you want to be, your ideal self. How does she live? How does she think, feel her emotions, eat, move?
And what’s one scary step you can take today to get closer to her?
It’s okay if it makes you stress sweat, I do too.