07/06/2026
Here are the four signs:
1. Your tolerance has quietly shot up. That single glass of wine you used to pour to unwind no longer works. You now need a lot more to take the edge off your stressful day.
2. You downplay your habit or hide the evidence. Normal drinkers don't keep secrets about their beverages. If you find yourself quietly hiding empty bottles in the recycling bin, that's a sign.
3. You are trapped in exhausting "moderation math." You spend a LOT of mental energy constantly negotiating with yourself. You go through your day asking: "Should I drink today? How many? When do I stop?"
4. You get instantly defensive if anyone brings it up. If a partner or friend gently mentions your drinking habits and you immediately snap, that's a red flag. Normal drinkers don't feel threatened when someone observes their drinking.
If you relate to these, then I'm here to tell you: change is possible. Click the link in my bio to learn how you can use neuroscience to get your power back.