02/09/2026
“I thought it was just part of getting older.”
I hear versions of this all the time in consultations.
My waist is getting wider - that’s just age.
My cycle is all over the place - but I’m perimenopausal.
I’m starving by late afternoon - I just need more willpower.
I’m always bloated or constipated - that’s just my digestion.
I seem to react to loads of foods now - so I’ve stopped eating them.
I’m anxious all the time - that’s just life now.
And this is where I tend to say… hang on.
Not because every symptom means there’s something wrong.
And not because there’s always one neat explanation waiting to be found.
But because I don’t think we should automatically accept changes in how we feel simply because they’re common - or because we’re getting older.
I want to know:
What changed?
When did it change?
Has it gradually got worse?
What else is happening alongside it?
Then I want to look at the bigger picture - your nutrition, health, digestion, training, recovery, sleep, menstrual cycle and what’s going on in your life.
Sometimes there may be something nutritionally that needs attention. Sometimes further investigation may be appropriate. Sometimes the answer is somewhere else entirely.
But first, we have to stop dismissing the information our body is giving us.
Common doesn’t automatically mean “this is just how I am now.”
Which one have you caught yourself saying?