26/08/2026
Almost five years on and I'm still figuring out my "quirks"! 💫
Getting an ADHD diagnosis was just the start.
It was validating. It helped me understand myself better and, perhaps most importantly, learn to be much kinder to myself (most of the time! 😂)
But the diagnosis didn't suddenly give me all the answers.
I'm still learning how my brain works. I'm still recognising patterns, understanding why certain things have always felt harder than they seemed to for other people and discovering that some of the things I once saw as flaws are actually just part of how I'm wired.
I'm learning to work with my brain rather than constantly trying to work against it.
And it's one of the reasons my own neurodivergence has become such an important part of how I work with my clients.
As a hypnotherapist, I know that no two people are the same and I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach.
We start with a conversation. I want to understand you - how you think, what your mind does, what keeps you stuck and what you'd love to be different.
Once I understand how your mind works, I can tailor the way we work together and introduce strategies that can help you quieten the mental chatter, switch off from the constant thinking and create a little more space in your head.
One client recently told me:
"That felt amazing. My mind has never been so quiet."🤍
For someone whose brain is constantly busy, that can be such a powerful feeling.
You don't need to fit a particular mould to benefit from hypnotherapy.
You just need to be willing to explore what makes your mind tick and perhaps discover that there are ways of making life feel a little easier.
Almost five years after my diagnosis, I'm still learning about myself.
And maybe that's the point.
We're never really finished figuring ourselves out 💫
I currently have a small number of 1:1 appointments available, with my next appointment on 8th September.
If you're curious about whether hypnotherapy could help you, you can book a free 15-minute chat with me first. There's no pressure or obligation, it's simply a chance for us to have a chat, see if we're a good fit and decide whether working together feels right for you.
Pop me a message or book your free consultation here ⬇️
https://www.sumupbookings.com/donna-hughes-hypnotherapy
*Late diagnosis of ADHD in women* - this is a subject I can wholly relate to.
I was listening to a Mel Robbins podcast this week (I'll post a link in the comments) where she spoke with Dr Gabor Mate on the subject of trauma & it's link with adhd, autism, addiction & auto immune diseases.
This quote really stood out :
*"I think what happens is as women get older they tend to get a bit less repressed and the tendencies that are in them, that they have tried to kind of control in order to be acceptable and to fit in, it becomes intolerable for them, particularly peri-menopausally. It becomes a real chore for women to continue to fit the stereotype in which they were moulded. So I think whatever is in them is more likely to show up."*
Having the gradual realisation in my early 40s that as a 'square peg' I was no longer willing, or indeed able, to conform or fit into the round hole my employer was attempting to force me into. I stopped being 'the good girl', the mask slipped & I began to rebel. This happened on a subconscious level initially and I worried daily that I'd be dismissed. Brain fog meant instructions became a word soup & I frequently felt mentally paraylsed. It really seemed as though the wheels were falling off my life!
A Guardian article entitled 'The Lost Girls' shared by a friend online resonated so strongly with me & that set me on a research path which led to me eventually getting my diagnosis of combined ADHD at the age of 46. With this came relief, understanding & a whole host of other emotions to unpick.
If any of this resonates with you & it's something you'd like to talk about then please get in touch. I don't have all the answers by any means but through research, coaching & lived experience I've learnt a lot about myself & I'm happy to share the things that work for me 🧡💫🤍