06/18/2026
“I just thought I was bad at handling stress now.”
That’s what a patient told me last week. I felt for her, and for all the women I see who feel this way.
She said it like it was something she was doing wrong — like somewhere along the way she’d decided her exhaustion, her shorter fuse, her inability to absorb a hard day the way she used to... was a shortcoming.
It wasn’t.
In perimenopause, estrogen stops being predictable — and estrogen has direct effects on serotonin and dopamine, your mood and resilience chemicals. When estrogen gets erratic, your capacity to handle stress changes too. That’s not a shortcoming. That’s physiology.
If you’ve quietly been wondering what happened to your ability to just... handle things — this is exactly the kind of thing I break down in my free hormone guide, the foundational pieces that explain a lot of what you’re feeling.
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